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Long Term Relationships and Desire I read the author's New York Times Magazine piece based on this work, and decided to go for the book.
Daniel Bergner talks to researchers, mostly women, who are empirically investigating female desire, and describes specific findings, as well as patterns emerging in the growing literature.
Along the way, much of what our culture likes to believe about female sexuality, and well as what many of the research subjects wanted to believe about themselves, is called seriously into question on increasi I read the author's New York Times Magazine piece based on this work, and decided to go for the book. Along the way, much of what our culture likes to believe about female sexuality, and well as what many of the research subjects wanted to believe about themselves, is called seriously into question on increasingly firm scientific ground.
Evolutionary psychology, on the basis of what it considers to be adaptive, has posited that women, having more limited opportunity to bequeath their genes, and needing support in child-rearing, will tend to be inclined more toward monogamy, tend to fewer sexual partners, and in general, express these tendencies through greater sexual restraint than men.
Men--at least in terms of spreading their genes--supposedly benefit from casting their copiously produced genetic material through as many females as possible. This is a somewhat simplistic summary, since difficult-to-explain cracks in it appear both in human and animal studies. I find evolutionary psychology fascinating, but its theories are often very hard to validate empirically, or to falsify.
And the women in the studies cited in What Do Women Want? At the same time, the women reported their levels of arousal while looking at these erotic videos, photographs, and in some cases, listening to stories. Members of one group, as a form of control, were attached to a device they were told was a lie detector. Women without the "lie detector" reported low levels of arousal in many cases when the physiological measurements said otherwise. The women in the lie-detector group had self-reported levels of arousal much closer than those who did not believe they were being monitored.
Other researchers are looking at what to do about women who have lost desire for their partners in long-term relationships. These women love their husbands or partners, and want to maintain the close bonds. Part of the book looks at pharmaceutical efforts to deal with this. But in the course of talking with women whose desire for their partners has waned, researchers have learned that fantasies of other partners still appeal to the women, and that the women, at least in their expressed wishes, appear no more monogamous by nature than men are typically thought to be.
Fantasies that push boundaries and alarm feminists are more common, at least at this point in the field's development, than would commonly be thought. One might say that eating and having sex are the two activities most basic to life, all life, including humans. Eating sustains individuals, and sex sustains the species. No getting around that. But we do need some controls on both, and people have adapted to the need for controlling sexual expression in myriad ways, as any good historical or cross-cultural look at the topic can attest.
But could we get along better if we were more conscious of what we're doing? Really quite disappointing. It's as though the book was written at four or more different stages in the writer's life - or even, by four or more different people - and the results were just lumped together in a nonsensical blob.
It starts out with an oh-so "American" bit of pseudo-journalism, full of soft porn innuendo "Her legs were long, her breasts, full, high.. It moves effortlessly on to an account of how the female of quite a number of species is in fact the sexual protagonist - but witho Really quite disappointing. It moves effortlessly on to an account of how the female of quite a number of species is in fact the sexual protagonist - but without really attaching this idea to homo sapiens.
It makes a passing, almost sneering, reference to the tension between nature and nurture in defining what drives women - but makes no attempt of any kind to apply it.
It slips into full-on pseudo-intellectual burble a typical example - "a wealth of pop psychology writing declares confidently that there is an all-determining link between inborn levels of testosterone and myriad forms of aggression or passivity - sexual forms high kong them - in men and women".
Yeah right. And finally, in direct contradiction of the initial "women are horny" section, it closes with a semi-exploration of the idea that many women lose their sex drives altogether - and how this represents a great opportunity for someone to come up with a female Viagra.
I read this book as I was - am - truly interested to learn more on this strangely obscure subject. I finished it none the wiser. A potentially interesting book marred in part by the journalistic style. I know that's unfair, but I wanted less of the human interest and more about the science.
That being said, a lot of the studies talked about in the book have been out for quite a while, and the book doesn't add anything to them, despite its supposedly considerable interviews. There is nothing new here. I also began to wonder whether it was strictly necessary to describe each scientist and her fashion every time the author g A potentially interesting book marred in part by the journalistic style. I also began to wonder whether it was strictly necessary to describe each scientist and her fashion every time the author goes to talk about a new area of research he doesn't do it for the men.
I realise this is journalistic style, but it really takes away from the whole point of the book, which is that our current understanding of female sexuality is completely socially constructed [by men]. It's not massively problematic, but it does grate and somewhat undermine the book as a whole.
Interesting, I suppose, if you don't keep up with sexology and so on, but largely reiterative. Naomi Wolf's book Vagina, though problematic in its own ways, is a far more interesting exploration of the topic.
It is an interesting topic but I am not sure what to take from reading the book. If nothing else, it confirmed for me how little I understand about what women want and how confusing the topic can be. The book highlights how society has often overlooked and downplayed women's sexuality. As a result, there is a strong force in many women that, because of being subdued for so long, can play a hugely influential role in their intimate lives and relationships.
Perhaps my expectations were wrong or th It is an interesting topic but I am not sure what to take from reading the book. Perhaps my expectations were wrong or the lens through which I read the book was off, but I was hoping the book would have more clear cut answers to the question of "What do women want? Instead, I feel that, in many ways, I have been left with more questions than when I started. I first heard about this book on NPR , and promptly requested that my local library purchase it--which they did!
Unfortunately, I wasn't terribly impressed. It may have been that I expect my nonfiction to be scholarly and esoteric, but Bergner seemed fluffy, with an irritating predilection to provide physical descriptions of his experts that did little to distinguish them from one another.
Their research was interesting enough--a dismantling of the ideas that women are less visually stimulated th I first heard about this book on NPR , and promptly requested that my local library purchase it--which they did! Overall, however, I'd say the article above pretty much covers it. It truly changed how I think about my sexual life. I still need to process all the information here, but I think this book will change my life for the better. His mystery is my reality.
Bergner seems surprised by many things I take for granted. Women, for instance, are sexually aroused by more than we might admit to. Put another way: If watching a video of copulating monkeys turned you on, would you necessarily admit that to a stranger? Even if that stranger were wearing a lab coat? Still, this is an often fascinating myth-buster of a book that strives, and occasionally manages, to get to the truth about women and sex.
You learn about how the experts actually study sexuality, and some of their surprising conclusions. Monogamy, for instance, can be a libido-killer for women. Other topics explored include female Viagra, rape fantasies, lesbian bed death, the anatomy of the clitoris, hypoactive sexual desire disorder, and what it means if you love your husband but need to fantasize about Yankee shortstop Derek Jeter in order to reach orgasm.
Not yet. Or improvise. It often gets downright smarmy. Swelling nipples! Hard cocks! Throbbing genital blood! Then she settled her light brown body onto the white upholstery. Her legs were long, her breasts full, high. She licked her fingertips and stroked her clitoris. She pulled her spread knees up. She handled one breast.
Her hips began to grind and lift. Still, keep turning these pages and you can learn a lot about what turns you on. For science! According to Nielson, the consumer tracking company, one in three online porn users is female.
I loved the young women whose libido was rocked by imagining sexually charged encounters with a middle-aged bald man. I do hope Roseanne Barr never reads this book. Bergner describes a study in which men were offered one night stands with Angelina Jolie, Christie Brinkley, or Roseanne.
That a smart, funny, female is, without question, sexually repellent? I doubt a female author would have accepted this conclusion without comment, as Bergner does. This book was not as terrible as I expected it to be, but considering I was anticipating something truly atrocious and heteronormative, that's not really saying much. There were limitations within the book, but these limitations had more to do with the research being conducted than what Bergner had to say. Excluding bibliography and other notes, this book clocks in at just under pages double spaced.
And that's even with fluffing it up with first-person accounts and anecdotes. This is, essent This book was not as terrible as I expected it to be, but considering I was anticipating something truly atrocious and heteronormative, that's not really saying much. This is, essentially, a light, quick read - the exact opposite of what it should be.
Bergner interviewed the leading sexologists in the US and Canada, of which there are approximately five studying female sexuality okay there may be as many as ten but seriously that's not very many at all. Why so few? Because female sex drive is still an extremely controversial subject, even after the supposed sexual revolution of the latter half of the 20th century. Researchers are ridiculed for "wasting" government money on trying to study what motivates or demotivates women regarding sex.
And yet how many billions of dollars went into discovering and developing Viagra and similar products? But when women express desire for a comparable product, it becomes controversial under the guise of "protecting women from rapists" pro tip - if you want to protect women, step away from the rape culture idea that men are animals who cannot control their libidos when a woman is around.
Let us also recognise that "woman" and "sexuality" are ill-defined not only in this book but in the minds of the researchers and psychologists interviewed.
I was pleasantly surprised that some of the studies mentioned actually included lesbians. I was less surprised and more disappointed that this was the only non-heterosexual identity researchers chose to look at. Gay versus straight, while predominant in the general public's perspective, hardly encompasses the wild variety of sexual identities. Does a male-to-female transsexual's sexual desires differ from a cisgendered-heterosexual woman's?
Where does bisexuality fit in when it comes to the arousal study that measured straight and lesbian arousal when viewing different pornographic videos? Towards the end of the book there is a brief nod to sexual fluidity, citing some of the more famous examples i. Anne Heche , but there is no scientific data to explain why this might happen.
Lastly, Bergner presents a lot of contradictory data that in the end tells us absolutely nothing. Gosh I couldn't imagine why Women have autonomy of mind? Women have differences of opinions? Not possible. All women singular identity. All women actually one woman. No difference. Just like all men one identity - animals. Whoops that was a little more bitter than I meant to be. In retrospect I may have to rate this one 2. The following notes are for my own amusement.
And they dip their spines deeper, so the new male has an easier time thrusting. I found Chapter 7, Monogamy, the most monotonous chapter of the book. Struggled through it and then, happily, the book once again became interesting. Have a natural aversion to such claptrap. On reading page I could not help but think of Suzy Favor — Suzy was a major motivator in my reading this book - Suzy and that which Suzy has brought into my life.
Note: it wasn't so much the specifics as related on the page as the example of what extreme training can do to body chemistry. The last ten pages really wrap up the book — the story is developing and could get very interesting. The last paragraph — page — nails it - be careful of perceptions and more so of conventional wisdom.
Daniel Bergner has packed a lot of thought provoking observations into pages. Well worth the price of admission. I enjoyed this book because of all the questions it raises. It races through numerous diverse snippets of information which means there is little depth involved but hopefully it will lead to more - and better - investigations and insight into female sexuality.
The basic premise it attacks is that women are meant to be less interested in sex than are men, which is something that does need to be laid to rest. Throughout history there seems to be a pendulum swinging from one extreme to the other wh I enjoyed this book because of all the questions it raises.
Throughout history there seems to be a pendulum swinging from one extreme to the other when it comes to female sexuality: one minute women are hardly sexual at all, the next minute they are sexually insatiable. This book obviously supports the latter. But women, like other female animals, are most likely a combination of both extremes. In the females of most other species this is quite obvious as they respond to their hormones and change from zero interest in sex to a voracious appetite when fertile and 'on heat'.
And this is the case with the female rhesus macaques such as "Deidrah" in the book, though the fact that Deidrah has no interest in sex most of the time seems to have passed readers by.
Women are different in many other ways than in the way our sexual behaviour is mostly uncoupled from our reproductive cycles but the 'hows' and 'whys' of this uncoupling will, I'm sure, point to some answers about our behaviour, including answers to other questions raised by this book.
None of the researchers I have learned from All of them, no matter how evocative their experiments and piercing their ideas, are acutely aware of the layers of unknowns -- and of the impediments to getting beneath. Overall the book's value lies in its potential to get readers to take a second look at how they view female sexuality and desire. Bergner sets out to challenge some of the deeply held beliefs in our society about women and sex, particularly that their sex drives are inherently more suited for monogamy than men's.
The studies and findings that Bergner highlights can help women and their partners get a more nuanced perspective into their sex lives and validate the experiences typical for many couples. I think that makes this book important and worth reading. The book has a conversational tone and reads like one long magazine article, making the scientific findings accessible. I did find that Bergner was sometimes willing to make leaps of logic I wasn't going to follow, especially in how often he drew direct parallels from animal behaviors to humans.
But keeping in mind the above assertion that this book is just a beginning and not meant to be comprehensive overview if the subject, and take it with a grain of salt, I would recommend it. Started on Wednesday, finished on Thursday. The prose was tight and, to its credit, relied less on the author's agenda than on testimony of experts and research subjects.
Although the book as a whole was riveting, it wasn't entirely satisfying, which I think is partly because research on female sexuality isn't satisfying. As the author states, such study is underfunded, criticized even by liberal educators, and potentially upsetting to the status quo. The author is not so much concerned with ans Started on Wednesday, finished on Thursday.
The author is not so much concerned with answers as he is with presenting questions this is most visible in the chapter "The Alley," which addresses rape fantasy, a prevalent desire among women that even the most forward-thinking scholars struggle to reconcile with their feminist ideals. This book is important, well-written, hard to put down, and when finished, hard to forget, not that I'm trying. Shelves: nonfiction-memoir , pop-psychology. I enjoyed the pop-psychology of A Book About Love more.
This didn't provide much that I haven't heard elsewhere, although I suppose it's always useful to remember that I will inevitably become bored and uninterested in every relationship I enter. The honeymoon must end and the craving for female Viagra will take over! A more useful takeaway that the author could have explored more but didn't is that women experience more desire when they pursue and take more agency in their sexual r Shmeh.
A more useful takeaway that the author could have explored more but didn't is that women experience more desire when they pursue and take more agency in their sexual relationships. That comes in on the second to last page, so your guess as to where to take that is as good as mine.
Would provoke interesting discussion and reflects some laudable impulses. But also some kooky ones and some lazy writing and thinking. Readers also enjoyed. Self Help. About Daniel Bergner. Daniel Bergner. Books by Daniel Bergner. Mahogany L. Browne's Picture Book Gift Guide. She's also the Read more No trivia or quizzes yet. Add some now ». Quotes from What Do Women Wan On matters of eros, we accept this as a kind of psychological axiom.
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